1-The Tranquility, so if you ask something from your husband, so do it peacefully, and even if you arguing do it quietly.
And always send tranquility in his heart
2-Don t complain a lot! Be soft with him , act with love and be merciful to him
3-Be beautiful for your husband, use many things to please him (make up and perfume )
AbdAllah ibn Jaafar ibn Ali RA advised his daughter when she was bride :”make your eyes with kohl it s the best of adornment”
And one of the qualities of the best wife as Mohmaed pbuh defined is the one whose husband is happy to look at her.
4-Serve him: Husband likes his wife to prepare something for him even a cup of coffee, even a glass of water …. Small things but valuables for man!
5-Husband also likes his wife to be a good listner to him and to keep his secrets.
6-Wife, don’t be very jealous, and control his calls, sights and movement
7-Husband wants to feel leader in his home, so consult him in everything and share with him everything.
Even in deen “It is not permissible for a woman to fast when her husband is present except with his permission” this is if woman has to make up some missed days of Ramadhaan and her husband is present
8-If he is wrong, don’t comment all his mistakes.
9-Share his happiness and sadness
10-To say thanks for everything, he likes when you appreciate his deed.
11-Don’t ask for divorce if there is no valid reason.Husband dislikes this, then The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) said: “If any woman asks her husband for divorce without any strong reason, the odour of Paradise will be forbidden for her” [ Ahmad , Abu Dawood and al-Tirmizi
12-Respect his family and especially his mother.
So are you a good wife?
Iam not married but knowing my self, i have to be honest , I have many things to work on my self!
so dont be ashamed , work on yoursleves , my sisters if you re married , it s never late.